“When our daughter Isabelle unexpectedly passed away during labour, I, like so many other bereaved parents, was left with a whole lot of love I wasn’t sure what to do with. I needed a way to channel that love and still feel like I was caring for my baby in some way.
I’ve always enjoyed crafting, but I’d lost my motivation in amongst the grief. I had plans to make all these lovely things for and with Isabelle, but I was no longer able to do so; I think I just grew disheartened by that. Then I was speaking to my partner’s sister, who is also a bereaved parent, and she shared with me that she’s created a floral tribute each year, one of which was a figure of 8 made to look like a race car track. That’s part of my inspiration. For Isabelle’s first birthday, I made a beautiful butterfly floral display.
I’d also started creating a small fairy garden in a raised flower bed in the garden built by my partner – a special place for Isabelle. Then I thought, what if I combined the two to create mobile miniature gardens?
Over the last few years, creating these miniature gardens has given me something creative and physical to do with all that love. I have also made seasonal ones for Easter, Halloween and Christmas too. These go out to the cemetery, and they can last for months. In fact, I still have the one I did for her 2nd Birthday at home in the garden, along with Isabelle’s fairy garden that evolves each year and then a seasonal one at the bottom of the garden, my partner built as an extension.
Some might find it unusual, but for me, these miniature gardens are a deeply personal and practical way to keep Isabelle’s memory alive. They give me comfort, a place to put my love, and a way to continue being her mum.”


